We’re four months into 2012 now, so you likely fall into one of two groups: 1) The 8% who are actively working to achieve their New Year’s Resolutions, or 2) the rest of us, who are in various stages of falling off that bandwagon. Whichever group you are in, there’s no better time than the present to re-evaluate and re-energize your goal-setting. I’ve mentioned before that using categories can help you come up with meaningful goals, and I’ll re-paste the list of suggested categories here to refresh your memory:
- Spiritual (even if you’re not religious, you can think about what your ultimate purpose in life is and how you’d like to fulfill that)
- Family (anything related to your relationships with family and close friends)
- Financial (budget, spending habits, investments, retirement savings)
- Community Service
- Lifestyle (travel, hobbies, material desires)
- Career (short and long term work goals)
- Education (what you’d like to learn)
- Fitness (your health, weight, eating habits)
- Homemaking (cleaning, organizing house)
- Homeschooling (even if you don’t homeschool your children, there are probably things you’d like to teach them outside of their regular school work)
Skim through the list, and think about what goals come to mind in each of the ten categories (and if I’m missing a great category, let me know). Then, go back through the list, and actually write down some proposed goals for each category (or look at the written goals you wrote in January). But when you do this, take the list in order; that is, spiritual goals first, then family, then financial, etc. That’s because each category is going to define some of the goals in the categories below it. For instance, thinking about your ultimate purpose in life (Spiritual goals) will likely change what your Financial goals are, your Community Service goals, and probably your Lifestyle goals, too. But if you started with your Lifestyle goals (example: “I want to be able to go clothes shopping every month”) you might find that you’ve interfered with a broader Financial goal (“I want to pay an extra $200 towards my credit card debt each month”) or a Spiritual goal (“I want to focus on enjoying what I have instead of buying more stuff to make me happy”). Here’s another example: in the Family category, you might set a goal to spend more time with your children. That will likely impact your Financial goals (“I will not work overtime on Saturdays so that I can spend time with my children”), your Lifestyle goals (“I’d rather buy a used car than have to work more overtime to buy a new car”) and your Career goals (“I need to find a job with a more flexible schedule”).
Goal-setting can be a bit time-consuming, so it might be helpful to focus just on Spiritual goals for today, and spend some time thinking about what your ultimate purpose in life is. Keep in mind that your Spiritual purpose can be religious, but it doesn’t have to be. A Christian’s purpose might be to testify about the Word of God, an atheist’s might be enjoy each present moment of life instead of looking to the future or dwelling in the past. Your purpose isn’t really one of your goals because it’s too lofty and broad, but it will help clarify what your down-to-earth goals should be. Here are some examples of a life’s purpose:
- Leave the world a better place than when I found it
- Gain a deep understanding of my religion
- Serve others, by offering help to people who need it
- Share my knowledge of (“X”) with as many people as possible
- Celebrate the true meaning of the holidays that I observe
Or a life’s purpose can be a little more specific:
- Help as many homeless animals as possible
- Help preserve the vanishing culture of my ancestors
- Promote the conservation of natural resources in my area
- Be a loving parent who provides my children with all that they need to grow up into good people
Once you’ve come up with a purpose (or two) for your life, you might feel a sense of increasing clarity about the rest of your goals, like fog disappearing under the sun’s hot rays. Suddenly, goals that seemed important (“I want a new mountain bike”) become less interesting than goals that drive you towards your life’s purpose (“I want to volunteer at the local animal shelter”). So, try it out- think a little bit about your life’s purpose, and when you have a chance, go through the list of categories from 1 to 10, and jot down a goal or two for each category.
Have you set goals yet this year?